Do you often have that draining feeling that you are not enough? That what you’ve done is lacking, even if it gets recognized by others? Do you often feel that if you are truly yourself you won’t be loved, understood or successful? That you can never be free, even with the ones most close to you? And that, despite all your hard work, life is still an uphill battle and joy is fleeting? Speaking from my experience as a therapist and a human being, I can assure you that it doesn’t need to continue like this forever. With the right form of treatment you can start feeling truly alive, develop a deep sense of confidence, and create relationships where you are loved for who you are. Once the healing starts you will be surprised by how far-reaching the benefits can be. You’ll have a sense of ease in your life and that blissful feeling that the future will take care of itself. You won’t be afraid to ask for what you want or take risks and you’ll feel both deserving and generous in your relationships.
If you have ever felt alone when together you know it’s the worst kind of alone. This feeling is like a low grade fever that quietly wears you out. And isn’t it frustrating and disheartening to once again reach out for your partner with hope and best intentions and end up in the same terrible fight that the two of you can never avoid? Or knowing that you and your partner once had something very special together that’s getting lost in daily hustle, work stress and child care negotiation? And then you start feeling hopeless and think that love doesn’t really ‘conquer all.’ But, see, I believe it does. Except it needs to be in the right kind of shape to be able to conquer; your love needs stamina, strength, and pliancy nurtured by authentic, live connection. As a Couple Therapist I am committed to getting your relationship into conquering shape. Using a powerful and world-wide recognized therapeutic method (Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples), I will guide you through a series of predictable steps to a place of emotional safety with each other, where renewal, repair and rejuvenation are possible.
I believe that not all therapies are created equal. I am passionate about offering my patients, both individuals and couples, therapeutic methods that are progressive, strength oriented and transformative. Being experiential by their design and nature they produce desired change in the most accelerated and palpable way.